Ferchi

"I'll share my choice: to work outside the home and be a mother, however imperfectly. I try to lean in as well as to stop hiding that it's sometimes hard despite my relative fortune. So I'm fessing up about those silly fake cakes and sharing what I wish I'd known in the wee hours eight years ago: We all have paths to take, whoever we are, and those ways of living all have trade-offs. We gain, not lose, power by owning that imperfect reality, living it without shame and learning from whoever else is willing to share their experience."